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Leah Livingston | October 21, 2009
The bisexual wife is the accepted by many men as a means of having the opportunity to have a second woman in the house without the friction of creating on he spouse. The rationale is that if both spouses are enjoying the same experience, then it would not be classified as cheating.
This is like drinking a diet drink while taking on a 1,300 calorie meal. The logic does not add up in the traditional sense. The term having one’s cake and eating it too is the best analogy. Even though people who engage in this sort of activity rarely come out in public, they remain very active. The problems arise when several things happen in the relationship stemming for the wife’s bisexuality.
- She may begin to prefer the company of other women more than that of men.
- She may begin to get jealous as the years progress and a competition develops between the husband and the wife trying to win-over the woman.
- The wife may decide to see other women without the husband knowing.
These are just three examples that could happen to both a bisexual wife or husband and should be really examined carefully before taking on this responsibility.
- One main problem that bisexual women face when it comes to men is that in many cases they are not taken seriously for a relationship. Younger guys may find it cool and older guys who don’t expect much may also find them amusing. The reality is the woman runs the risk of becoming a novelty more so than someone that a guy would invest in heavily. Now, before you begin to post all of the exceptions, really think about it for a moment, bisexual = sexual instability. This means that besides the sexual aspect, there is very little value for most people to pursue a relationship, been there done that.
