by Denise Taggert
It was brought to my attention by a girlfriend of mine who gave up on brothers and decides to only date caucasian men, that they want more oral sex. Now this has been a taboo among us girls for a long time and now it seems that as more African American women date and marry other races, oral sex will play a greater role in satifying men. The thought of semen or the salty taste of a penis in the mouth turns a lot of women away from oral sex. Yet other women find the idea of sucking on something used to pee with repulsive. Like many other African American women who had to go that extra yard to keep their man, I used chasers such as chocolate syrup, whipped cream, strawberry glaze or anything else that would not put the thought in my head. Now, as weomen we must consider that when the guys go down on us, there are juices no matter how much we douche or clean ourselves.
One of the main complaints I hear from African American women who do this regularly for their men is the fact that the guy does not understand how to get underneath the hood and suck the clit properly. Here is one thing that my man and I tried that worked, I had one of my closest friends who happens to be a lesbian invite us to their home for a demonstration. Of course he was turned on by what they did to eachother, but he also learned the things that women have know for decades, the right spot. That night in bed, he ate me so much that I cried. Now, this worked for me but may not be your cup of tea, porn videos are a good way for him to learn. The only complaints I have heard from guys about doing this is the smell sometimes, so ladies should always sniff before you lay.
Now there is one thing that I see a lot of in some of the videos AT, Ass-to-Mouth sex, and really this should not be done because of the great possiblity of infection. Besides that situation, ladies just make sure he is not dipping in you and another guy without a condom, stay, safe, sexy, and strong.
