Many times people think that the reason white women wind up with black men has to do with skin-color, hair etc. Now true that is part of it, but there is another reason that few people address. Our secret as white women has little to do with stroking our blonde hair or flaunting tanlines, it has more to do with compassion and understanding. The black men that we usually get between our legs for a long-term relationship are those neglected emotionally by African American women. Seriously, the majority of the men that my girlfriends an I date are black men, primarily because we were in repressive relationships and unfulfilled by guys who just came inside us and left us masturbating for our orgasms.
Black men seem to be more aware of this and since my first, I’ve climaxed everytime, even to the point of squirting orgasms. What happens is that throughout the black man’s life he is not appreciated black African American women and when he reaches adulthood, he is totally alienated from black women. My current man refuses to even look at another African American female because of the wa he was treated by them when he had very little to offer financially. Now with the seven figure annual income, they want him desperately, but he is so not interested.
I said this to say that before you tear down the next black male you meet, he could be that one that could give you happiness as did mine. I got the guy, cash, and orgasm.
Wow that’s a lot of generalization. Can’t it be that some black men have a preference for white women, just as some white guys prefer black women? I haev a good friend who is a bass player who predominantly dated black women? Why? Because he liked them. My brother preferred Asian women and he ended up marrying a Korean woman. Some prefer older women, some younger. I don’t think you can pin this all on the evils of black women or the sexual ineptitude of white men.